I never imagined my life would feel like the plot of some twisted reality show, but that’s exactly what it became the day my mother-in-law gifted us a house—and then ripped it away just when we’d made it a home.
It all started two years ago. My husband, Drew, had always carried the heavy baggage of his mother’s rejection. Lorraine, my mother-in-law, never tried to hide the fact that her daughter Lisa was the golden child. Lisa could do no wrong. She wrecked her first car? Got a new one the next day. Failed out of college twice? Lorraine blamed the professors. Meanwhile, Drew worked two jobs through school, paid rent from the time he was nineteen, and still barely got a “happy birthday” text on time.
Despite the coldness, Drew still tried. He always hoped she’d turn around, see how hard he worked, how kind he was. I guess he just wanted some kind of closure, some recognition. But when we hit hard times—after I got laid off and our lease ended early—Lorraine didn’t offer even a couch to crash on. We ended up sleeping in Drew’s cousin’s basement for three months, trying to save for a deposit on something—anything.
Then, out of the blue, Lorraine showed up with this strange glimmer in her eye and said, “I want to show you something.” We were skeptical but went along. She drove us out to this old, beat-up house on the edge of Edgewater, near where her father had lived before he passed. “It’s yours,” she said, almost casually. “Do whatever you want with it. It’s just sitting here.”
We were stunned. Drew’s eyes lit up like I hadn’t seen in years. I cried right there on the cracked driveway. It was old, yeah. Peeling paint, busted pipes, wood rot—you name it. But it was ours. A place to finally call home.
We spent every cent we had—$67,000 and then some. I learned to grout tile from YouTube. Drew tore down walls and put up new ones. We painted every surface, installed new cabinets, redid the floors, the roof, the plumbing. It took almost six months, working on weekends, after shifts, until late into the night. But we did it.
And it was beautiful. Warm, light-filled, cozy. We threw a small housewarming party—barbecue in the backyard, string lights, folding chairs. We even invited Lorraine. She showed up in a long coat and sunglasses, like she was allergic to joy. She walked through the house once, nodded silently, and then pulled me aside on the porch.
“I have some news,” she said. Her voice was flat, but I sensed something sinister curling behind her words. “Lisa’s pregnant.”
“Oh,” I said, trying to sound genuinely happy. “That’s great.”
“I’ve decided to give her this house,” she said bluntly. “It’s still in my name. So you have a week to move out. Otherwise, I’ll have you removed by the police.”
I stared at her, waiting for the punchline. When it didn’t come, I felt my heart cave in.
“You’re kidding, right?” I whispered.
“No. I was just trying to be fair. Lisa needs the space.”
Fair? She hadn’t spoken to Drew in months before offering the house. She hadn’t given us a dime for renovations. But now that we’d done all the work, she wanted to hand it to Lisa like it was a fresh cupcake from a bakery.
When I told Drew, he was silent. Just… silent. That silence was worse than rage. It was heartbreak. We knew we didn’t have a leg to stand on legally. The deed was still in her name. We had trusted her word, our fatal mistake.
We packed up what we could and moved back in with my parents. Every box felt like a wound. But we weren’t going to beg. We weren’t going to fight. We were just… done.
And then, fifteen minutes after we pulled out of the driveway for the last time, Lorraine stormed into my parents’ house like a banshee from hell.
“What have you DONE?!” she shrieked.
I glanced up from the box of dishes I was unpacking. “What are you talking about?”
“The house! The cabinets! The walls! What have you done?!”
I blinked, confused. “We took our belongings, that’s all.”
“You took the appliances!”
“Yes. We bought them.”
“And the light fixtures?!”
“Again… ours.”
“You… ripped up the floors!”
“No,” I said calmly. “We removed the vinyl we installed. The original cracked tile is still there. Just like when you gave it to us.”
She looked like she was about to faint. “You can’t just take everything!”
“We only took what we paid for,” Drew said, stepping in. “Which, if you remember, was everything. The stove, the fridge, the water heater, the AC unit, the smart thermostat—all of it.”
She sputtered. “You sabotaged it! Lisa can’t move in like that!”
I shrugged. “Guess she’ll have to renovate it. You know, like we did.”
She stormed out, swearing she’d sue us. Of course, nothing came of it. The police never showed. Her lawyer probably told her exactly what we’d already known: anything not fixed to the house and bought with our money? Ours.
And the best part?
Lisa never moved in.
Apparently, once she saw the cracked floors, mold-stained walls, missing appliances, and general disaster of the original house, she decided it was “unsanitary” for a newborn. Lorraine tried to hire contractors to fix it back up, but the estimates were astronomical—and none of them could recreate what we had done from scratch, especially not with her budget. The house sat there for months. Empty. Falling apart.
Meanwhile, Drew and I caught a break. My uncle, hearing what had happened, offered us a rental property he hadn’t been using. Low rent, great location, even a garden in the back. We moved in, saved up, and eventually bought it off him a year later.
Drew cut ties with his mother completely. The last thing we heard, Lisa had moved back in with her boyfriend’s parents and Lorraine was trying to sell the old house “as-is” but couldn’t get even half of what she thought it was worth. Apparently, word had gotten around about her… temperament.
I won’t lie and say the whole experience didn’t leave scars. It did. It changed the way we trust people—even family. But it also taught us how strong we were. How much we could survive, together. That no matter what was thrown at us, we could rebuild. From scratch if needed.
Sometimes I still drive past that old house. It looks so small now. Faded and empty. And I remember the life we tried to build there. But then I drive home, where the floors are solid, the paint is fresh, and every inch was earned.
Have you ever trusted someone so much, only to have them rip the ground out from under you? What would you have done in our shoes?
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